\r\n\t父母是原件，孩子是复印件\r\n<\/p>\r\n
\r\n\t在学习陆惠萍教授讲解“好父母决定孩子一生”之后，使我内心久久不能平静。\r\n<\/p>\r\n
\r\n\t她真诚的告诫我们：父母是原件，孩子是复印件！我们的言行举止确确实实在不段影响这孩子。回顾以往的亲子生活有快乐、有焦虑、有期待。看着孩子不断的长大，再总结孩子的行为习惯，每位家长都在为自己的孩子构设今后的宏伟蓝图。\r\n<\/p>\r\n
\r\n\t望子成龙，望女成凤是每位家长的夙愿，可现实中又有太多太多的伤感和遗憾！大部分家长都把这个沉重的责任自己来承担，谁让自己孩子不成器？谁让自己不早些教育好孩子？是啊！这些凄凉的话语，难道还不足以让我们反思吗？孩子不成器，是谁造成的，是孩子自己吗？我想不是！每个孩子哇哇落地，他们是那么的纯洁无暇，给我们带来的欢乐不言而喻！那么真正影响孩子的是我们——父母！\r\n<\/p>\r\n
\r\n\t从古到今有多少关于父母的言传身教，使还孩子走向成功和走向堕落的实例比比皆是，在这里我就不去深入阐述，这个浅显易懂的道理，我们大家都是心知肚明。问题是我们怎么给孩子打造一个健康、向上的生活环境是关键所在？正所谓近朱者赤近墨者黑！\r\n<\/p>\r\n
\r\n\t因此，做为家长的我们应该多学习，注重言传身教，不断提高自身素质，从自身去影响孩子，使他们逐渐走向成功，切记“黑发不知勤学早，白头方悔读书迟”！\r\n<\/p>","author":null,"source":null,"seo_key":"原件,复印件,父母,孩子","seo_des":"父母是原件，孩子是复印件","seo_tag":null,"rel_doc":null,"exfile":null},"dic":{"uncatego":{"kid":"uncatego","pid":"0","title":"未分类","deep":"1","frame":"0","char":"W","cfgs":null,"icon":""},"type1":{"kid":"type1","pid":"0","title":"Type1","deep":"1","frame":"0","char":"T","cfgs":null,"icon":""},"type4":{"kid":"type4","pid":"type1","title":"Type4","deep":"2","frame":"0","char":"T","cfgs":null,"icon":""},"type2":{"kid":"type2","pid":"0","title":"Type2","deep":"1","frame":"0","char":"T","cfgs":null,"icon":""},"tag2":{"kid":"tag2","pid":"0","title":"TAg2","deep":"1","frame":"0","char":"T","cfgs":null,"icon":""},"te2":{"kid":"te2","pid":"0","title":"te2","deep":"1","frame":"0","char":"T","cfgs":null,"icon":""}},"_info":{"errno":0,"errmsg":""}}